You can leave them questions. Or you can leave them answers.
Plan your funeral, then protect your wishes with coverage that pays for them. All online, at your own pace, without ever visiting a funeral home.
Built by funeral home owners and pre-need professionals with more than 80 years of combined experience.
Start from a plan like yours.
Choose the one that feels closest, then make it your own. Every choice can be changed.
A simple cremation, and a gathering at home
- Direct cremation, with no service beforehand
- Ashes kept at home in a wood urn
- Family and friends gather in the backyard
A funeral and burial, led by your faith
- A visitation the evening before
- A funeral at your place of worship
- Burial beside family
A celebration of life at a favorite place
- Cremation first, then a celebration
- At a favorite restaurant, with live music
- Photographs, and time to share stories
A plan is a gift to the people you love.
So no one has to guess.
Your family will know what you wanted, in your own words, down to the music.
So no one has to pay.
Your wishes are already protected, so cost isn't part of the hardest week.
So the day feels like you.
Not a package from a price list, but a goodbye you shaped yourself.
Four steps, at your own pace.
How it works- 1
Learn
Every option explained, and what your faith may ask.
- 2
Plan
In your own words. Skip anything, and come back any time.
- 3
Share
Some people can read it now, and others when it's needed. Name who's in charge.
- 4
Protect
When you're ready, see the cost where you live and protect your wishes.
For every faith, and for none.
The planner teaches what your tradition asks before you choose, and never questions your choice afterward.
The planner also explains veterans' benefits, green burial, body donation, and giving chosen family the say.
Protestant, evangelical and non-denominational churches. Most accept burial or cremation, and your own pastor can lead the service.
A note from the founders
We own a funeral home together, and we've spent our careers sitting with families in their hardest week. The families who had a plan had it easier: fewer decisions, less worry about money, more room to grieve.
So we built a way for anyone to make that plan at home, at their own pace, with no one pressuring them.
Mio, Silvio, and David
Founders, mywishesinorder.com
- Free to plan, always. Your plan is yours to keep and share, whether you protect it or not.
- No sales calls, ever. We'll only reach you in the ways you choose.
- Coverage through Ethos [LOGO]. Apply online, on your own time.