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My final wishes

Updated October 22, 2026

What matters most

  • Above all, keep it simpleChange
  • Not religious, with a celebrant to leadChange

Arrangements

  • Cremation, with no service beforehandChange
  • Ashes kept at home, in a wood urnChange
  • Still to decide: where the ashes rest in the long runDecide now

The service

  • Family and friends gather in the backyardChange
  • Music from the records I lovedChange
  • Still to decide: who should speakDecide now

What comes next

  • An obituary written by familyChange
  • Donations to the animal shelter, in my memoryChange

In my own words

“Don’t be sad for too long. Go live, and take care of each other.”

In charge: Anna, my daughter. Backup: Tom, my brother.

Ruth

Where things stand

In charge
Anna, my daughter. Backup: Tom, my brother.
Protected
Yes. $6,000 of coverage through Ethos, policy [NUMBER]. Anna is the beneficiary.
Travel protection
Not added.

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