A service at home or outdoors.
A goodbye doesn't need a chapel.
About 2 minutes to read
Families gather in living rooms, backyards, parks and on beaches. With a little planning, a service can happen almost anywhere that mattered.
At home
In most states, families can hold a vigil or a funeral at home. Some states require a funeral director for certain steps, so check what yours asks.
Outdoors
Parks and public places may need a permit. Private land needs the owner's permission. Scattering ashes has its own rules, which differ by place.
Read more: a few practical things
- A plan for bad weather
- Chairs for anyone who can't stand for long
- A way for everyone to hear, outdoors
- Someone to look after the details, so family can be present
In your plan, you’ll decide
- The place, and a backup if it rains
- Who looks after the details on the day
- Music, readings, and who speaks
- Any permit the place may need